Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

I've had quite a few, discounting that one with a specific name that I can't be bothered to mention due to the FML's that came from it.

However, there's one girl I sorta don't know what to do with right about now. The way we speak makes it sound like we're sorta in a relationship, but I can't be bothered to hit the specific question required for it. Meh. She's sorta the type of girl I'm looking for, but... eh. I just can't ask that question, only just sit and watch a few episodes of Vanguard with her. (As a note, we've been doing that for a few days now. We're on episode 51~) >___>;

inb4Lily
inb4Chris
inb4Rod

._. I think that should cover it.

Johnny wrote:I've had quite a few, discounting that one with a specific name that I can't be bothered to mention due to the FML's that came from it.

However, there's one girl I sorta don't know what to do with right about now. The way we speak makes it sound like we're sorta in a relationship, but I can't be bothered to hit the specific question required for it. Meh. She's sorta the type of girl I'm looking for, but... eh. I just can't ask that question, only just sit and watch a few episodes of Vanguard with her. (As a note, we've been doing that for a few days now. We're on episode 51~) >___>;

inb4Lily
inb4Chris
inb4Rod

._. I think that should cover it.

Y'know, your statuses on MSN are, for lack of a better word, cute. I don't know details, buuut I'm pulling for ya.

You can only beat about the bush for so long, Johnny.

'Sides, we only joke about it so you just shut up and get with her properly. :3

Johnny, why are you not on my MSN yet.

And yes, this current love of yours is doing wonders for yourself =3

I wouldn't consider my self homosexual but, I mean I feel that I could love a Guy in that kind of way *herpderp* shoot me for being honest but so far I'm a straight as a door, just gotta little curve at the top, don't worry guys I'm not going to jump on anyone's d**k.

Anyway I've had two shitty relationships which in-turn was a fail from the start and another which lasted about a year, we had sexual contact and got very close but then I got really depressed and kind of blocked every one out of my life, give or take it was my fault and now I miss her.

Serenade wrote:I wouldn't consider my self homosexual but, I mean I feel that I could love a Guy in that kind of way *herpderp* shoot me for being honest but so far I'm a straight as a door, just gotta little curve at the top, don't worry guys I'm not going to jump on anyone's d**k.

Anyway I've had two shitty relationships which in-turn was a fail from the start and another which lasted about a year, we had sexual contact and got very close but then I got really depressed and kind of blocked every one out of my life, give or take it was my fault and now I miss her.

I want you to jump on my d**k though.

Depression at teenage ages is normal. YOu have so much going on that you don't understand and you work so hard to understand it.

Oh Dae you, I'd want to jump on your d**k *shot*

Anyway yeah It was like 3 years ago now though so I'M THE HAPPIEST KID ALIVE, well yeah I'm actually quite jolly now to be honest.

Now that I can agree with. It is like nothing can ruin my moods for too long

Indeed, I hated puberty but I loved the outcome of it, if you get what I mean anyway.

Umm, I've only had one decent relationship (the other one lasted a week, and the girl went insane after I ended it). It lasted ten months, and its kind of dominated my life for the past few years. It's kinda complicated, and I'm sorry for venting but I don't get to do it much, and hearing everyone else open up, I thought I might as well.

I'm one of the least confident people alive, and when I get a crush on someone, generally I'm to scared to do anything about it. This one was different. I met her through school, and we didn't talk much, and then one day I released I liked her. And I didn't do anything becuase I was scared of the rejection. It turned out she had a Boyfriend, but that didn't stop me from liking her. I got to know her, became really close friends with her, and I fell in love with her before we started dating. She dumped her ex, I asked her out and she said no. Then a few weeks later, I guessed she had got a crush on me and asked her again. she said yes, and for most of the the ten months we were perfect together. She was smart, funny, beautiful, the right amount of crazy, and we were best friends as well.

And then in one week everything fell apart. We had a fight after an accident, and she dumped me, and told me she hadn't loved me for a month. And its kinda broken me as a person. I'm misserable, obsessive, and i feel hollow. And about 9 months later, after proffesional help I've been labeled as a typical teen case, and left without any decent help.

And rather stupidly, the only way I'm coping is by being her best friend again, despite the pain. But, its not what I want. I want one of two things, and it seems like neithers going to happen.

Sorry for boring everyone with my problems. Like I said, I don't get a lot of chances to open up.

While you guys have your relationships, I'll be stuck as an afterthought.

Strikey if your as forward as you are on here, that is your issue.

js.

HiveNet wrote:Umm, I've only had one decent relationship (the other one lasted a week, and the girl went insane after I ended it). It lasted ten months, and its kind of dominated my life for the past few years. It's kinda complicated, and I'm sorry for venting but I don't get to do it much, and hearing everyone else open up, I thought I might as well.

I'm one of the least confident people alive, and when I get a crush on someone, generally I'm to scared to do anything about it. This one was different. I met her through school, and we didn't talk much, and then one day I released I liked her. And I didn't do anything becuase I was scared of the rejection. It turned out she had a Boyfriend, but that didn't stop me from liking her. I got to know her, became really close friends with her, and I fell in love with her before we started dating. She dumped her ex, I asked her out and she said no. Then a few weeks later, I guessed she had got a crush on me and asked her again. she said yes, and for most of the the ten months we were perfect together. She was smart, funny, beautiful, the right amount of crazy, and we were best friends as well.

And then in one week everything fell apart. We had a fight after an accident, and she dumped me, and told me she hadn't loved me for a month. And its kinda broken me as a person. I'm misserable, obsessive, and i feel hollow. And about 9 months later, after proffesional help I've been labeled as a typical teen case, and left without any decent help.

And rather stupidly, the only way I'm coping is by being her best friend again, despite the pain. But, its not what I want. I want one of two things, and it seems like neithers going to happen.

Sorry for boring everyone with my problems. Like I said, I don't get a lot of chances to open up.

Don't be sorry at all. Opening up is always a great thing. We also get to know you a lot better too.
I am sorry for what you went through and hope everything is better now.
Sometimes a great way to cope though is to just say to yourself in a mirror and say everything you want to. It may seem like nothing, but letting yourself out to people can be an issue, so you always have yourself express things you may not and it also feels like you're talking to someone else even if it is your reflection.

Serenade wrote:Strikey if your as forward as you are on here, that is your issue.

js.

This.
And your lack of confidence and overwhelming paranoia.

Being a negative nancy never got anyone anywhere. And it's certainly not a trait someone will be looking for in a man.

Chandra Ablaze wrote:Being a negative nancy never got anyone anywhere. And it's certainly not a trait someone will be looking for in a man.

You know what.
You know a lot about looking for a man, are you sure you never tried it?

Serenade wrote:Strikey if your as forward as you are on here, that is your issue.

js.

Elaborate please. I'm curious. Chris, I can't help it anymore.

Striker, there a 7 billion people on the planet, there is always going to be one capable of looking past any flaws you have.

I.E if your always trying to impress a girl you might do the complete opposite.

DDae wrote:

Chandra Ablaze wrote:Being a negative nancy never got anyone anywhere. And it's certainly not a trait someone will be looking for in a man.

You know what.
You know a lot about looking for a man, are you sure you never tried it?

oh u

Sorry, Gregg, I'm straight as it gets. :c

Striker wrote:
Chris, I can't help it anymore.

That's the exact attitude no one wants. It takes a lot of effort, but you can change that about yourself if you just try to think positive.

Chandra Ablaze wrote:

DDae wrote:

Chandra Ablaze wrote:Being a negative nancy never got anyone anywhere. And it's certainly not a trait someone will be looking for in a man.

You know what.
You know a lot about looking for a man, are you sure you never tried it?

oh u

Sorry, Gregg, I'm straight as it gets. :c

It doesn't hurt to try.
Stay straight then, and make the girls want what I can't have, okay?

Chris, I try to. I just... I don't really know anymore. I guess constant rejection will do that to a guy.

Striker wrote:Chris, I try to. I just... I don't really know anymore. I guess constant rejection will do that to a guy.

Then don't bother about a relationship. You don't particularly need one and the chances you are going to stay together as people go to college will not be that high.

Striker wrote:Chris, I try to. I just... I don't really know anymore. I guess constant rejection will do that to a guy.

I know the feeling, albeit I only faced constant rejection until the age of 13. It was around that time where I realised I wasn't helping myself just by looking at the negatives of things. Although, that did in-turn lead me to become a really cold person, all I can say is don't let that rejection lead you to hate the world like I did.

I hate using the term, but just "man up" and start thinking higher of yourself. I doubt anyone would believe that only a few years ago I was the kind of person to put himself down at any possible instance, but if you work at something you want to change about yourself, then you can change it.

And as Gregg said, you don't need to be in a relationship now. You've got your whole bloody life ahead of you and you're probably not even a quarter done yet. Live a little.

Besides, there's absolutely no reason to be depressed over never having a relationship.

Everything happens at the right time. Yours just didn't arrive yet.

Cheer up and BE YOURSELF. Nothing is more important than your personality. You might think that being yourself isn't going to be a good thing, but truly nice girls look for sincerity above anything else.