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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Kanade Otonashi on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:13 am

    Well, you have to respect that. If someone doesn't feel like they truly love someone, it's better for them to not get the other's hopes up.

    Sounds like she's doing the right thing in all honesty.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Dem the Dragophile on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:14 am

    Mine is a very... awkward one, Kanade...


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Johnny on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:17 am

    Dusk wrote:F*cking friendzones. :c

    Indeed.

    /shot

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    Speaking of, got friend-zone'd. Problems? None at all. Enjoying one's presence doesn't exactly mean "MUST. DATE. OR. BUST." in any case.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Dae of Judgment on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:19 am

    I never actually posted a story.
    I liked my best friend for sometime. I haven't done anything because I knew that she didn't want a relationship or anything. In order to try something, I wanted to tell her my feelings in some way that she would understand, but not do anything about. With a school dance coming up, I thought I would ask her. We talked a few minutes before about what we are going to do over the summer and expectations for the new school. When we were about done I asked her politely and she said that she was going to go with friends. Our other best friend said I should have asked her sooner, and the fact that i didn't put me down. But the other friend also suggested that I ask for the last dance to be with her. I was happy, hoping that it would work. I walked up to her, asked her for a dance, and was rejected again. My ex saw all this and gave me a kiss on the cheek, which was a booster. My ex and I were friends, he still had feelings for me and was there in that rejection. After that, we started to dance.
    It took off after that. His feelings were more physical during the time and I didn't feel the same way for my ex as he did for me. We tried out the idea of friends with benefits, but up to a point. That worked well, and we became closer than ever. We wanted more, a real relationship one more time. This took place over the summer and continued throughout the rest of the year. That was probably my best relationship with anyone ever. It lasted for a year. Which all started because of rejection.


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    Post by Dae of Judgment on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:20 am

    Dementuo wrote:Mine is a very... awkward one, Kanade...
    That is fine. Express your feelings. We won't judge you at all. And you're just more awesome if you do tell it Very Happy


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    Post by Dem the Dragophile on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:32 am

    Very well then.

    About a year and, oh, 7 or 8 months ago, both my twin sister and myself were having an awful night. She felt she needed someone to comfort her, so I took up that role for the night, as both our parents were out of the house and our older sister was still working. A few things happened, and we ended up kissing. I suppose that was where my initial mixed feelings started, though I've felt that the choice I did end up making, which was to ultimately form a real relationship with her, was the right choice. As for what happened that night, suffice to say... A few things happened, each leading to another. It was extremely awkward and very strange, but I feel it was worth it in the end.
    Honestly, I still don't quite know how it all happened, and I don't exactly remember everything that took place that day.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Ruby on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:34 am

    Kanade Otonashi wrote:
    Dusk wrote:F*cking friendzones. :c

    Friendzone is the biggest f****** piece of bullshit I have ever had the misfortune of hearing someone talk about.

    If you aren't friends with a girl when trying to date her, you're probably not worth the trouble for her, and she probably isn't worth the trouble for you.:

    I cannot stress it enough that people who just go up to girls and ask them out without even being friends pisses me off.

    I can't stand womanizers and the like.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Jordan, Lich Lord on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:37 am

    Queen wrote:
    Kanade Otonashi wrote:
    Dusk wrote:F*cking friendzones. :c

    Friendzone is the biggest f****** piece of bullshit I have ever had the misfortune of hearing someone talk about.

    If you aren't friends with a girl when trying to date her, you're probably not worth the trouble for her, and she probably isn't worth the trouble for you.:

    I cannot stress it enough that people who just go up to girls and ask them out without even being friends pisses me off.

    I cannot stand womanizers and the like.

    What if it's a school and you sort of known most of those people your whole life?


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Ruby on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:42 am

    Jordan-The Manamancer wrote:
    Queen wrote:
    Kanade Otonashi wrote:
    Dusk wrote:F*cking friendzones. :c

    Friendzone is the biggest f****** piece of bullshit I have ever had the misfortune of hearing someone talk about.

    If you aren't friends with a girl when trying to date her, you're probably not worth the trouble for her, and she probably isn't worth the trouble for you.:

    I cannot stress it enough that people who just go up to girls and ask them out without even being friends pisses me off.

    I cannot stand womanizers and the like.

    What if it's a school and you sort of known most of those people your whole life?

    In most cases, if you knew her most of your life, wouldn't she be your friend?
    ...
    Even if she wasn't, you had like, your whole life to go at it lol


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Dae of Judgment on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:43 am

    Dementuo wrote:Very well then.

    About a year and, oh, 7 or 8 months ago, both my twin sister and myself were having an awful night. She felt she needed someone to comfort her, so I took up that role for the night, as both our parents were out of the house and our older sister was still working. A few things happened, and we ended up kissing. I suppose that was where my initial mixed feelings started, though I've felt that the choice I did end up making, which was to ultimately form a real relationship with her, was the right choice. As for what happened that night, suffice to say... A few things happened, each leading to another. It was extremely awkward and very strange, but I feel it was worth it in the end.
    Honestly, I still don't quite know how it all happened, and I don't exactly remember everything that took place that day.
    That is cute how you two turned out. Very unlikely. But also very nice.
    Glad you two are better off together Smile


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    Post by Dem the Dragophile on Thu Aug 16, 2012 3:44 am

    I'm sure you can imagine how awkward it would be, though.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Dae of Judgment on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:07 am

    Dementuo wrote:I'm sure you can imagine how awkward it would be, though.
    Of course. It would be awkward, I mean it is your sister.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Johnny on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:12 am

    Queen wrote:I can't stand womanizers and the like.

    >I'm known for being a womanizer when I'm not in love (per se) with someone

    Well now.

    Time to pack my bags, boys.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Ruby on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:13 am

    Johnny wrote:
    Queen wrote:I can't stand womanizers and the like.

    >I'm known for being a womanizer

    I don't see it.


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    Post by Johnny on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:16 am

    Right, IRL and internet don't correspond.

    Never mind, I ain't packin' no bags.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Yuzuru Otonashi on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:43 am

    Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...


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    Post by Dem the Dragophile on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:49 am

    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...
    Congratulations. Welcome to the club, Blackie.


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    Post by Dae of Judgment on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:51 am

    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...
    Now I am hurt.
    I really don't care about that.
    First time out of the closet? Cool. At first it is kind of bothersome, and you question your reasoning for doing so.
    But have you been questioning yourself about it more than anything?
    Don't put yourself under a title like that if it is an issue to you, you can like both girls and boys without the title, you know.
    But if not, congrats on being open, and hopefully you will be more open with others, not worrying about what they say.


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    Post by Garazza on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:56 am

    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm
    bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I
    actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing
    that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it
    doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit
    nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...

    Yay, I'm not the only one who's bi here.


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    Garazza wrote:
    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm
    bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I
    actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing
    that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it
    doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit
    nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...

    Yay, I'm not the only one who's bi here.
    You don't know the half of it.


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    Post by Dae of Judgment on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:59 am

    Garazza wrote:
    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm
    bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I
    actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing
    that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it
    doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit
    nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...

    Yay, I'm not the only one who's bi here.
    Not Bi, bro, I am pan Razz


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    Post by Dem the Dragophile on Thu Aug 16, 2012 4:59 am

    DDae wrote:
    Garazza wrote:
    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm
    bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I
    actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing
    that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it
    doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit
    nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...

    Yay, I'm not the only one who's bi here.
    Not Bi, bro, I am pan Razz
    Just one of the reasons why we love you. =P


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    Post by Ruby on Thu Aug 16, 2012 5:01 am

    Yuzuru Otonashi wrote:Well, damn. If Dem can drop a bombshell like that, I feel a lot better about mine.

    I'm bi. I didn't admit it until... a month ago or so, even to myself. I actually messed with Daemon a day or two after by saying "I don't swing that way", which wasn't exactly untrue. I mean, I have my OTP, so it doesn't really matter, but... feels good to say it in public, albeit nerve wracking. So, here goes nothing...

    This explains so much.
    ...
    Okay, teasing aside, if we're all like, admitting it, I will too.

    Of course, being a lesbian would be weird enough, but I've actually come across some guys I'm fond of.


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    Re: Relationships/Types/Orientation thread.

    Post by Le Creator on Thu Aug 16, 2012 5:02 am

    Ummmm...

    I'm straight. Had a GF, didn't work out (clingy and all that. Not my style).

    Relationships aren't really my thing. Not for a lack of trying tho...
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    Post by Yuzuru Otonashi on Thu Aug 16, 2012 5:06 am

    Le Creator wrote:Ummmm...

    I'm straight. Had a GF, didn't work out (clingy and all that. Not my style).

    Relationships aren't really my thing. Not for a lack of trying tho...
    *Avi is yaoi fangirl*
    *Your avi is yaoi fangirl's target*

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